Romancing the Stone
In the spirit of the sabbath, lemme share with you something from one of my very favorite persons in this world, Michelle McKinney Hammond. Her book āA Sassy Girlās Guide to Loving Godā is one of her books that bring a smile to my heart (going through the table of contents alone). Iāll pick a chapter today and share with you so perhaps your Heart can smile too
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Romancing the StoneĀ
āIf Loving You Is Wrong, I Donāt Wanna Be Rightā most of us can sing the lyrics to this song and clearly have one person in mind. This identified person colors the inside of your worldĀ , thereās nothing youād ever do to hurt him/her, n God forbid that you do behind his/her back something that they didnāt approve of. Thats how much we love when we love the ones that we love.
Many of us claim to love God in a greater way. We are ready to shout āLord I love youā while tearing up in worship, but most of us donāt get the depth of this love. Hereās a good question, āHow much should we love God? And how do we show that love?ā Hereās Jesusā answer:
āIf u love Me, u will keep My commandments.ā
~John 14:15 NASB
Our obedience to God is equated to the sign of our love for Him. If I say I love Him, I should be willing to please Him at all cost (like I would willingly want to please my lover). Truth is, some of our obedience has had nothing to do with God, rather because we feared the consequences of our actions more than we feared God.
Thereās an instance of a lady learning a new language because her lover asked her to learn his language; wanting so much to please him, she learned the whole language. Lol, thatās how far most of us can go with our love. Thatās how far love can drive u. So, dropping some profane words from your vocabulary, deciding not to go to that suspicious night party, choosing not to identify with anything that doesnāt represent God, shouldnāt look like a death sentence to you.
If we have invited Jesus into our hearts, then we should be willing to clean up so that He can be comfortable and joyful in His new abode, donāt let Him have to step over dirty underwear, spoiled food, and various kind of garbage in your heart. Instead let Him help you clean it up, He wants to make a love nest in your soul. He delights in showing Himself strong for you (But He waits for you to ask) āJust as the Father has loved Me, I have also loved you; abide in My love.ā ~John 15:9 NASB
Love your lover, love your beau, love your better half to bits. But donāt let the ātrue Lover of your soulā get the leftovers of your heart. Look pretty on the inside for the One who loves you the most. Love what He loves, hate what He hates. Donāt let your Lovers name be disgraced cuz of your actions (2 Samuel 12:13).
Love ātil it hurts! love God ātil it hurts!!! Thatās the perfect example Jesus showed to us (Hebrews 5:8)
Thereās a whole lot more this chapter/book is pregnant with, maybe Iād share on some other day, or maybe you can rush for your copy
My love life has sweetly improved and Iāve discovered the ultimate relationship. I have decided to be obedient to God because I love Him and I would never want to hurt His heart.
Thank you Michelle, I love you.
Hey Rhed, thanks for sharing this, it spurred me to dust the book and start reading. Got it as a birthday present last year. Keep sharing, and i really love this reposting old posts…learning from you big time. Keep doing what you are doing my dear, God will bless you big time
xoxo from one Christian blogger to another
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Boy am I glad to hear that! Thanks for being both an encouragement and a severe motivation. Let’s keep on keeping on. More of God’s grace boo š
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